Moses — Carrying What Isn’t Yours

Feb 20, 2026By Ray Mileur
Ray Mileur

The Other Half of the Story

Moses — Carrying What Isn’t Yours

Moses did not volunteer for leadership.

He argued against it.

“I am not eloquent.”
“Send someone else.”

But God did not choose him because he felt capable.

He chose him because the people needed someone who would stay.

Moses confronted Pharaoh, led Israel out of slavery, and into freedom — and almost immediately the complaints began.

They feared the desert.
They missed Egypt.
They blamed the man trying to help them.

Moses spent years solving conflicts he didn’t create,
answering accusations he didn’t deserve,
and interceding for people who often wanted to return to what harmed them.

This reveals a difficult form of strength:

To remain present when appreciation disappears
To guide without becoming hardened
To carry responsibility without demanding gratitude

Biblical leadership is not control over people.

It is standing between them and destruction — even when they misunderstand you.

More than once God offered to start over without them. And Moses refused.

He chose to stay with the people rather than escape the burden.

Christ fulfills this pattern.

He bore rejection without abandoning those rejecting Him. He interceded for those who accused Him. He carried a cross for people who did not ask Him to.

A man is not proven by how many follow him willingly.

He is proven by whether he remains faithful when they do not.

Masculinity in Scripture is not influence.

It is endurance on behalf of others.

Because sometimes strength is not rescuing people once — but refusing to leave them when the rescue takes years. S

The Other Half of the Story
Moses — Carrying What Isn’t Yours

Moses did not volunteer for leadership.

He argued against it.

“I am not eloquent.”
“Send someone else.”

But God did not choose him because he felt capable.

He chose him because the people needed someone who would stay.

Moses confronted Pharaoh, led Israel out of slavery, and into freedom — and almost immediately the complaints began.

They feared the desert.
They missed Egypt.
They blamed the man trying to help them.

Moses spent years solving conflicts he didn’t create,
answering accusations he didn’t deserve,
and interceding for people who often wanted to return to what harmed them.

This reveals a difficult form of strength:

To remain present when appreciation disappears
To guide without becoming hardened
To carry responsibility without demanding gratitude

Biblical leadership is not control over people.

It is standing between them and destruction — even when they misunderstand you.

More than once God offered to start over without them. And Moses refused.

He chose to stay with the people rather than escape the burden.

Christ fulfills this pattern.

He bore rejection without abandoning those rejecting Him. He interceded for those who accused Him. He carried a cross for people who did not ask Him to.

A man is not proven by how many follow him willingly.

He is proven by whether he remains faithful when they do not.

Masculinity in Scripture is not influence.

It is endurance on behalf of others.

Because sometimes strength is not rescuing people once — but refusing to leave them when the rescue takes years. S