The House on Sand — Why So Many Megachurches Are Cracking

Dec 12, 2025By Ray Mileur
Ray Mileur

The House on Sand — Why So Many Megachurches Are Cracking

When a ministry grows faster in size than it grows in depth, you get a balloon, not a body. And balloons pop.

Many megachurches didn’t fail because the buildings were too big or the model was too modern…

They failed because:

- Discipleship was outsourced to programs instead of personal investment.
- Spiritual maturity was assumed, not cultivated.
- The Sunday show became the main meal instead of the spark that should drive believers into deeper obedience.
- Leadership charisma replaced biblical shepherding.
- Crowd gathering was celebrated more than soul shaping.
-You can have a sanctuary packed with 10,000 people and still be spiritually starving.

And sooner or later, spiritual malnutrition shows.

 1. When people aren’t discipled, they don’t stay. A church may attract thousands, but if they don’t teach people how to walk with Christ, carry their cross, repent, pray, study, serve, and endure…Those people eventually drift, deconstruct, or go looking for the next mountain-top emotional hit.

Roots matter, programs don’t produce them. Pastors do.

 
2. When the foundation is weak, pressure exposes it. A church built on:

- celebrity culture,
- shallow teaching,
- entertainment-centered worship,
-prosperity-tinged theology,
or corporate-style structures…

This all lmight look invincible in good weather, but storms expose everything.

- COVID exposed it.
- Cultural pressure exposed it.
- Scandals exposed it.
- The next generation exposed it.

Sand looks solid until the water rises.

 
3. A crowd is not a church — a church is a discipled people.

Jesus never said, “Go into all the world and draw big audiences.”

He said, “Make disciples.”

Big difference.

- A disciple will stand when the world shakes.
- A spectator will not.

4. Many megachurches created consumers, not disciples
This isn’t every megachurch — some do faithful, deep ministry.
But a large swath built their “growth” on…

- polished branding
- emotional experience
- high production value
- self-help messaging
- motivational preaching
- “me-centered” spirituality

That will fill seats but it will not form saints, and eventually people realize they’ve been eating cotton candy when they needed bread.

The Decline Isn’t Mystery — It’s Consequence

A ministry that never trains people to endure, sacrifice, obey, and walk in holiness……won’t endure either.

People leave because, they were never rooted, never challenged, never spiritually fed, never personally shepherded.

If you plant shallow, you harvest shallow.

The Good News?

The decline of the megachurch model is not the decline of the Church.

It’s actually an opportunity for real pastors, real shepherds, and real churches to rise again — churches built on:

- Scripture
- Discipleship
- Prayer
- Accountability
- Community
- Service
- and the Holy Spirit’s work, not man’s charisma

These storms aren’t killing Christ’s Church. They’re clearing the stage. And maybe that’s exactly what needed to happen.